Good boundaries and goodbyes: loving others without losing the best of who you are

Introduction: we can't set good boundaries without love

Chapter 1: You are not crazy (you can love them, but you can't change them)

Chapter 2: Naming the tension that we've all been wrestling with

Chapter 3: It's not about the problems, it's about what the problems represent

Chapter 4: God takes boundary violations very seriously and so should we

Chapter 5: You are already doing this really well

Chapter 6: They may never see your boundaries as a good thing

Chapter 7: Just because they say it doesn't mean you have to own it

Chapter 8: Trying to make someone else happy shouldn't be your definition of healthy

Chapter 9: What am I so afraid of?

Chapter 10: Can a goodbye ever really be good?

Chapter 11: I'm not walking away, I'm accepting reality

Conclusion: a Bible, a ring, and a God who never leaves us

Wisdom to turn to when our boundaries are called into question

Getting the help you need

Some important notes to consider on abuse.